The Honest Expat: Lynn in Australia

So many South Africans have thought about taking the leap and emigrating to Australia? But what is it really like? In today’s The Honest Expat interview I ask Lynn, a South African who emigrated to Brisbane in 2013 to tell us the truth…

 

Where are you originally from? Born and bred in Cape Town

Where did you emigrate to? Brisbane, Australia

When did you emigrate (year)? 2013

What was the catalyst/s for your emigration decision?

Our main reason for emigration was for better financial opportunities which would then allow us to give our son better opportunities.

How long had you thought through the emigration process?

It had been an option for a few years, but certainly not at the top of priorities or options for us. Then in the July 2013 while we were watching Wimbledon we had a serious talk and a month later my husband was in Australia looking at the possibilities of getting a job.

How easy/ complicated was the application process to emigrate and how long did it take? Did it require certain qualifications/ documentation/ finances etc?

We were extremely lucky and within a month hubby was offered a position with a sponsorship from the company which allowed our family to move over. It took 3 months for the visa to be approved and if I remember correctly it cost R40 000 just for the visa. One of the requirements was either a qualification in the industry or a certain amount of years working in the industry. Hubby had 20+ years experience so was fortunate to tick that requirement. There was a lot of documentation needed, but nothing that was out of the original. So, birth certificates, marriage certificate, passports, bank statements, proof of English, Matric certificate/uni results. We then all needed to have full medicals and chest X-rays. Tristan and I stayed in Cape Town to sell everything and pack up and for Tristan to complete the school year.

What was your first year like after emigrating?

It was a really difficult year as 9 days after Tristan and I arrived after selling our house, cars and packing up everything the company told Shawn they were closing the branch that he was employed at! ? A lot of my family had been hesitant and questioned our decision to come over so we never even told them what had happened. We only had 3 months to find a new sponsor otherwise we were to be out the country within 30 days. This was such a stressful period. Luckily at the last minute Shawn was offered a position and we could breathe again! I didn’t want to communicate much with the family back home as I didn’t want to lie to them. So tried keeping communication to a limit which is soooo hard when you a close family and miss them terribly. Tristan had a great year at school and I made 2 really lovely friends. I did as much at the school that I could so that I could meet people and learn the Australian schooling system.

What have you loved about your new home – for you and your children? (the positives of emigrating)

We are living in a great area/community and are able to give Tristan so much more than we would ever have been able to back home. I work 32 hours and have 4 afternoons off which allows me to take Tristan to all his sporting commitments. He walks home with his friends and sometimes alone (only 800m) from school which is not something I would ever have thought of allowing in Cape Town. When hubby is at work at night I will still have the front door open until late at night and not be afraid. I have in fact gone out a couple of times and left the front door open by mistake ? For us the move has definitely the right move especially from a financial point of view.

What have you found hard about your new home – for you and your children? (the negatives of emigrating)

The Australian people are not nearly as welcoming as South Africans. Even though you make friends, socialising on a regular basis is not something they seem to do. They don’t seem to invite you in for a cuppa and a chat! Which is something I really miss. Another thing is not having help with the housework and garden unless you pay a fortune!

What have you NOT missed about South Africa – for you and your children? (the positives of emigrating)

The crime is something I certainly don’t miss. Being at home with the doors open and going for walks without looking over your shoulder all the time. A while ago I was looking at a South African friends pictures on Facebook and Tristan pointed to “bars on the windows” and asked me what is that? The facilities for children in regards to parks is amazing. The majority have sun protection over them and in excellent condition.

What have you missed about South Africa – for you and your children? (the negatives of emigrating).

Family!! Definitely the family. It is so hard not having your family living close by! Those special occasions like birthdays, Christmas etc just don’t feel special anymore. I have missed 3 family weddings and a funeral which was pretty heartbreaking.

Knowing what you know now – would you emigrate again? To the same place or to a different place?

I would certainly do it again, but would possibly choose Perth instead of Brisbane as it makes it much closer to SA.

If you could, would you return to South Africa? What would make you consider returning to South Africa?

I would only return for holidays

What makes it hard to return to South Africa – for you and your children?

We have been home once since we left which was great, but the saying goodbyes again never gets easier. Being so far from Cape Town makes it long and expensive to return home.

What were the unexpected (good and bad) aspects of emigrating that you’d wished you’d known about before going. Do you have any advice for those contemplating making this huge move for their families?

Something that was very strange to us was that sport was not included at junior schools. So everything is done after school at clubs. If both parents are working full time this limits the time you have to take the children to activities. Another thing that still boggles my mind is the cost of childcare! I am so grateful we only came over when Tristan was at school. If you are not entitled to any benefits (it takes a lot of visa’s until you get permanent residency), the full fees can be up to $110 per day per child! So this is something to bear in mind! Different states have different rules and policies. In Queensland at this stage (I do believe it will be changing) when we arrived on a working visa, we were very fortunate to be enrolment at a great state school and pay no fees! Budgeting is a lot easier as both hubby and I get paid weekly which is very common! The public transport is very efficient making it easy to get to the city if necessary.

Thanks Lynn for sharing your story and advice. So valuable to hear from those who have gone before.

 

If you’re a South African expat reading this and have some tips of your own to share please drop me a line on [email protected]

 

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Kathryn Rossiter

Kathryn is a South African lifestyle blogger and mom of 2 who has been blogging daily for almost 7 years! She writes about travel, health, beauty, fashion, decor and family... but not food (unless it's food she's eaten made by someone else) as she is a hopeless cook. She only wakes up early for 2 things... a red-eye flight to somewhere exotic and early morning game drives. She has just finished an extensive home renovation and would prefer to never see another box again. She's never met a chocolate or glass of bubbles that she didn't like!

5 Comments
  1. Very Interesting. This is the first time that I have encountered this series. I’m looking forward to more interviews along these lines.
    Maybe I’ve just been very fortunate with my living experience in Cape Town. But I leave my front door and other patio doors open in summer. We enjoy regular walks around our neighbourhood, even at night. And in certain areas children still play in freely in the parks. Not as much as before but it happens. So, it’s not entirely a prison like environment, although I do concede that one has to be more guarded & vigilant than you would in cities that have less crime.
    I’m very happy that she found a city that offers her what she needed. I know that story of being far from family – my eldest daughter has lived out of SA for many years and came back for four years. Were it not that her husband has such terrible treatment ( he is not an SA national) from the Department of Home Affairs, they probably would still have been here. But Destiny had other plans for them and now they are in Dubai, waiting to relocate to Finland ( again). I guess – it is what it is.
    Many thanks.

    1. Hi Rose. Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts on this topic. I’m glad you found the feature interesting. I’m trying to get a good cross section of experiences so maybe you can ask your daughter if she’d be interested in being featured esp with all her experience!

  2. Hi Kathryn. Thank you for sharing your experiences that you have experienced in Australia. My name is Florence and I am a mom of 2 .It has always been my dream to move to Australia ..but not knowing how to go about it or who to ask ..My main focus is to give my kids a better education and again to live in peace ..whereby one does not need to be constantly looking over shoulder. or having to worry about crimes and people looking down on you

  3. Hi Kathryn

    I found your blog about moving to Australia very interesting, thank you.

    My sister and I are planning to move to Australia. We are currently in South Africa. We are however both Australian citizens, which we managed to achieve through decent. Our mum was an Aussie, and we got citizenship 10 year’s ago.

    Things in SA are not looking good at all. we have decided to sell our properties in Cape Town, before they get expropriated, and move over there. We have never been there before so we know nothing about the place. My mum lived in St Ives, near Taronga zoo.

    My sister is 63 and I am 61, we are both fit (we still run) and healthy, and we both work. We need to work once we get there which we hope is not going to be too much of a problem. I am an estate agent and she is groups manager for MSC Cruises. Her company has an office in Australia, so hopefully she can join them. I am waiting for her to tell me where MSC’s offices are over there. If she can organize a transfer at least we will know what city we will be living in.

    Do you perhaps know of anyone who could advise us about finding accomodation, public transport, what area would be best for us, our money is going to have to be divided by the horrific exchange rate, and a million other questions we are sure to come up with.

    Many thanks

    Warm regard’s

    Christine

  4. Hi,

    I got a Job Offer through my current company to go to Australia, and we are in two minds.
    I have done a lot of research but still i cant make up my mind.Lots of pro’s and Cons.
    It looks expensive to live in Australia, but is it not the mistake people make because they try and change it to Rand and you pay in dollars (aus). your thoughts on this.
    The other question is my Wife has a good work in SA how will this effect the living standards and will the one bread winner in Aus be able to support both with the one income. I don’t want to leave SA for a better Career move and we end of being worst financially.
    The main idea was for me to go over for 6 months and get everything setup and running that side and then bring my wife over.
    What would your advise be for me waht is the main things i must consider packing up and going to Aus.
    Please Advise or give your thoughts ,
    Regards
    Danie Swanepoel

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