“The thing that is really hard, and really amazing, is giving up on being perfect and beginning the work of becoming yourself.” ― Anna Quindlen

Tag: life


50 ways to change your life for under R50

Posted on 6th March, by Kathryn in Becoming me, Inspiration, Marriage. 5 Comments

At the beginning of the year I sat down to think of my New Year’s Resolutions – I usually pick something to give up (this year is fizzy drinks – Coke!) and a word to focus on (Truth)… besides that I’m not particularly good at keeping them! After thinking about it for a while I realised that what might be easier for me is to make small changes throughout the year – a new one every week. I had planned to blog weekly in detail about each change but as you can tell it is now the beginning of March …  Read More »



Recommended Reads – Life stages

Posted on 4th December, by Kathryn in Families, Kids, Marriage, Recommended Reads. 1 Comment

Here are some links worth reading about various life stages – some serious, some fun, some tongue in cheek! Enjoy (I have posted some on the Facebook page but just in case you missed them I have included them here again…) Top 5 best toys of all time – Wired.com Teenage Bedroom Tumblr Why you are not married – Tracy McMillan, Huffington Post Top 5 regrets of the dying – Activist Post And then make time to watch this film – Life in a Day. It is the result of thousands of video clips sent in from around the world …  Read More »



Begin today

Posted on 15th November, by Kathryn in Wise Words for the Week. No Comments


My top 10 reasons to feel good today!

Posted on 1st November, by Kathryn in Becoming me, Top 10. No Comments

Here are my reasons to feel good for this week! 1. It’s the first of November (a pinch and a punch and all that…) 2. I’ve been invited to a stunning event – The O Tea Party – hosted by O, The Oprah Magazine this Thursday at Simons, Groot Constantia. I’m so looking forward to a wonderful afternoon of treats, pampering and meeting new people – does anyone have a hat I can borrow?? ;) Will be sure to do a post about it so come back soon! 3. Today I get to announce the winner of the R200 voucher …  Read More »



What I….. Anna-Louise

Posted on 7th July, by Kathryn in Interviews, What I ... Blogger Interviews. No Comments

Here is my latest interview as part of my series interviewing South African bloggers. The series is called “What I….” and I some of my favourite bloggers have agreed to share their thoughts on the following topics…. Know, Love, Read, Want, Wear, Need. Anna-Louise authors a lovely self-titled blog where she writes about “dough, dresses and desires”. She is a fashion obsessed twenty-something living in Cape Town who loves anything pink, pretty and girly. Here are her answers. What I… Know I know everything happens for a reason. I know bad things happen so we can appreciate the good. I …  Read More »



One day movie trailer

Posted on 28th June, by Kathryn in Books, Films, Inspiration. 1 Comment

I’ve been on the lookout for a good movie to look forward to and think this one is going to be great.


Recommended reads – Comparison chaos

Posted on 23rd May, by Kathryn in Recommended Reads. No Comments

Comparing ourselves to others is something we all do from time to time (and often too much of the time!) We are all guilty of comparing our lives, bodies, homes, finances, kids, holidays, partners etc….. and where exactly does all this comparing get us? Precisely nowhere! We all need a reminder to value ourselves as unique people with different lives Here are a few interesting articles on various aspects of comparing which offer good food for thought: Facebook fraud: is everybody really having more fun than you are? @All4Women No Contest: How to stop comparing yourself to others @ Yes …  Read More »


Recommended Reads – Mostly for Moms

Posted on 16th May, by Kathryn in Families, Recommended Reads. No Comments

Some great ‘family life’ reads for today… This is something I have maintained for a long time and really hope that slowly the rest of the world’s population catches on and starts to value families again…..Are families the answer to less crime? @ Justin Foxton SA The Good News 7 habits of highly nurturing mothers @ OC Register is a great read to remind us about what is important Letter to a tired new mother @ Mom Life Today How to be a mother @ Progressive Pioneer How to be a better mom in just 24 hours @ Inspired to …  Read More »


Everything = Symmetry

Posted on 23rd April, by Kathryn in Art, Inspiration. No Comments

This is beautiful… Symmetry from Everynone on Vimeo. via DesignMom


Recommended Reads – An array of articles

Posted on 1st April, by Kathryn in Recommended Reads. No Comments

Some good reads for the weekend: The worst career advice: Do what you love @ Bnet Enjoy each season of childhood @ Life as Mom Could you marry a man you didn’t love? @ Femail (interesting outcomes of 5 woman’s marriage stories) 5 places dirtier than your toilet seat @ Ohdeedoh Nanny knows best (disciplining advice from Norland nannies) @ Femail Elements of a child-friendly garden @ Simple Kids Have a carefree weekend!




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