“The thing that is really hard, and really amazing, is giving up on being perfect and beginning the work of becoming yourself.” ― Anna Quindlen

Tag: family


Moussaka for Supper

Posted on 1st May, by Kathryn in Families, Family Meal Times, Food, Inspiration. No Comments

Today I am pleased to feature a guest post from Ana who has shared a tasty Moussaka recipe that your kids will love. I’m not a big fan of cooking but obviously do have to do it like most moms -if I lived alone I think it might be a different story (hello Woolies!) Anyway I am thrilled to discover new easy recipes for family meal times and especially when they have been tried by other moms who can vouch for them. I am equally excited when a fellow blogger wishes to guest post about food on my blog as …  Read More »



Top 10 things I’m hoping to do this weekend

Posted on 2nd September, by Kathryn in Becoming me, Cape Town, Top 10. 4 Comments

1. Sleep in a bit on Sat morning (like maybe 8!?) Kids whose with me? 2. Start my new book – One Day by David Nicholls – hoping to finish it BEFORE the movie comes out. 3. Attend 2 kids bday parties – yes this is what your social life revolves around once you have kids…. 4. Have a long, lazy lunch in a new eatery in Cape Town catching up with my besties from school who I haven’t seen in WEEKS due to new jobs and new loves (neither mine mind you!) 5. Watch Crazy Stupid Love starring Steve …  Read More »



Recommended Reads – Raising daughters

Posted on 24th July, by Kathryn in Kids, Recommended Reads. No Comments

Being a parent is one tough job and even more so in today’s society…. esp raising daughters! Here are some worthwhile reads for Moms and Dads of Girls: How to talk to little girls @ Lisa Bloom for The Huffington Post How to raise girls with healthy self-esteem @ NYU Child Study Center 11 ways to protect your daughter from Barbie @ The Resurgence How to raise happy, confident daughters @ Surf Net Parents Ten tips for raising girls @ See Jane Win Raising girls @ The Sydney Morning Herald Who are teens sexual role models? @ Healthland Time magazine …  Read More »


What I….. Bobbylicious

Posted on 13th July, by Kathryn in Interviews, What I ... Blogger Interviews. 2 Comments

Here is my latest interview as part of my series interviewing South African bloggers. The series is called “What I…” and I asked some of my favourite bloggers to share their thoughts on the following topics…. Know, Love, Read, Want, Wear, Need. Robynne (Bobby) is the author of Bobbylicious – a diary of “a daydreamer who likes to dress”. She adores reading, indulging in trashy television reality shows, travelling, taking photos, exercising, eating yummy food and baking. She dislikes green jelly beans and snakes! She blogs about her daily outfits as well as her love of books. Here are her …  Read More »



Top 10 things I learnt this weekend….

Posted on 12th July, by Kathryn in Becoming me, Families, Kids, Top 10. No Comments

I always look forward to reading one of my favourite bloggers weekly posts on “10 things” so this week I thought I would try to do a similar list…. All credit to Being Brazen for the idea! Here are 10 things I learnt this weekend… 1. Summer weather in Winter makes me HAPPY. Reading in the sun while the whole house is quiet even HAPPIER. 2. Doctor’s don’t have all the answers – and sometimes you can have 2 completely different diagnosis from 2 different doctors in 2 days…. sick kids…. sigh…. 3. I cannot resist a cheese platter esp …  Read More »



What I….. Anna-Louise

Posted on 7th July, by Kathryn in Interviews, What I ... Blogger Interviews. No Comments

Here is my latest interview as part of my series interviewing South African bloggers. The series is called “What I….” and I some of my favourite bloggers have agreed to share their thoughts on the following topics…. Know, Love, Read, Want, Wear, Need. Anna-Louise authors a lovely self-titled blog where she writes about “dough, dresses and desires”. She is a fashion obsessed twenty-something living in Cape Town who loves anything pink, pretty and girly. Here are her answers. What I… Know I know everything happens for a reason. I know bad things happen so we can appreciate the good. I …  Read More »



How many kids is right for me?

Posted on 12th May, by Kathryn in Becoming me, Kids, Motherhood. 15 Comments

One of the biggest dilemmas swirling around my head daily (and nightly….) is whether or not to have another baby! Possibly one of the biggest decisions you will make in your life is whether to have kids and when to take the plunge into the deep abyss of the unknown. But following that to decide how many kids and how far apart to have them are also rather difficult dilemmas – life changing stuff really! I have been incredibly blessed with 2 wonderful little people in my life and I adore them both immensely (except maybe at 2am after 2 …  Read More »



Top 10 outings for kids in Cape Town

Posted on 10th May, by Kathryn in Cape Town, Family Friendly Cape Town, My Photography, Top 10. 2 Comments

In our family we love to do day trips or outings about once a month or maybe more during a “staycation”. We all pile in the car for our “Family Fun Day” and have a great time together. We are so fortunate to live in Cape Town (World’s No 1 tourist destination!) where there are so many great options for entertaining family members of all ages. (Here are some of my previous suggestions for things to do for free and things to do for a small fee.) Here are a outings for kids in Cape Town for a special treat …  Read More »



recommended reads – happiness

Posted on 4th April, by Kathryn in Recommended Reads. No Comments

Here are some great articles that challenge our concept of happiness in life. Happy mom = Happy kids @ Femail Most people think as you get older your happiness in life diminishes and “the best days of your life” are your carefree teens and twenties.. however these articles dispel that myth! Happiness begins at 50 and Happiness peaks in our eighties @ The Telegraph I’m so glad I have something to look forward to in life as I get older esp as according to this recent poll I am “over the hill” at 30! Young at heart or old before …  Read More »


recommended reads – understanding each other

Posted on 6th March, by Kathryn in Motherhood, Organizing, Recommended Reads. No Comments

So in an effort to understand those I live among – my friends and family (including the in-laws) I have done a bit of reading this week that has broadened my knowledge. You might find these reads interesting too! How can we stay friends? What moms and child-free women want each other to know @ the Happiest Mom The Public School Parents’ Guide to Homeschool Parents @ Weird Unsocialized Homeschoolers How do Pre-schoolers learn without formal school @ Practical Pages I hope you will be joining me in tackling Simple Mom‘s Project Simplify which starts tomorrow – 7 March. I …  Read More »




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